boss? baby? BOTH! (why you don't have to choose between them.)
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boss? baby? BOTH! (why you don't have to choose between them.)

May 01, 2018

My last trip to China was jam packed. 7 hr flight to Shanghai Monday, 5 hr high speed rail to Beijing on Tuesday, 7 hrs back home Thursday, stacked meetings in between. Pretty standard issue, except for my meeting with Teresa, which was the best conversation I had all week!

Let me tell you about her.

Teresa is a 2nd time mom that would be right behind me on her (first) trip to China ā€” for 2 whole weeks. But the difference between her and my packing prep was that she was terrified and I didnā€™t give it a second thought. (Well, other than double checking my pack list, but weā€™ll get to that.)

As soon as my itinerary hits the 3 nights away mark, I know my luggage strategy changes. I know that I will now need to freeze some of my stash before I haul it home, rather than just leaving it chilled. So thereā€™s about 4 extra minutes to double checking freezer storage supplies.

Teresa, on the other hand, thought she had a huge decision to make. She thought she had to take a career hit (saying no to the trip) or give up on nursing her new baby girl. Simply because thatā€™s what happened with her first. At 12 months, their breastfeeding journey ended because of a work trip - and now sheā€™s faced with the same decision at only 6 months in.

I tell you her story to tell you mine. Because I think her story is all too common. And it doesnā€™t have to be.

Fear, anger, frustration, and stress about feeding your child not only have no place in an already tough time to be away, but they also donā€™t help the old milk supply! So letā€™s try to do away with them altogether... because letā€™s be serious, dealing with your boss is probably enough of a hot mess that you donā€™t need to be stressed out about your boobs too.

My two minis have a combined age of 3.5 years on this grand planet. And for the last 4 years, their entire existence and then some, Iā€™ve had a corporate job covering the whole of Asia thatā€™s had me on a plane every other week. Usually 2-3 days if I can swing it, but not uncommon to be out the whole week like in China.
And here's the kicker - - my 2 little humans have been exclusively breastfed - - a combined 27 months and counting!

I donā€™t say that to knock formula or make you feel bad if you havenā€™t done the same. But many moms, like Teresa, think itā€™s one or the other.
And Iā€™m here to show you thatā€™s just not true. Itā€™s entirely doable.

You donā€™t have to choose between your job and your breastfeeding journey.

You donā€™t have to choose between a plane and a pump.

You donā€™t have to choose between your boss and your baby.

So to ease all the fear and frustration, she and I walked through the logistics of packing and freezing and transporting breastmilk in hotels and airports across the globe until she felt more confident in her ability to do both - travel for work AND nurse her daughter.

Call me selfish, but getting off that call and hearing the complete 180 in her confidence and voice is why I do this. And just like her, you definitely donā€™t have to figure this out alone either.

Start with my pack list of essentials or schedule 30 minutes to walk through it together!

Because youā€™ve got this, MAMMA - you can go AWAY